I FOUND IT!
And though everyone says that when you put YOUR dress on, you'll just know it's "the one". I'm not sure my experience was quite like that. Having very little idea of what I wanted, I tried on quite a few different dresses ranging in color, style, length, accents, fabric and cuts. Though my Mom, Elisa, and ladies that helped me seem to enjoy my spontaneity, I was pretty sure those sales ladies were not expecting to make a sale. Honestly, I too, was positive that they weren't going to either. During the experience on Friday, I said things like, "That one's different... how about that one... Ew! No that's ugly, buuuuut let's try it on anyways... What about that one... OOoooo, that's very different too, let's try that... Look at all that bling, pull that one in here..." I believe at one point I yelled at a woman who was trying to clothe a manaquine, "WHAT SIZE IS THAT ONE?!" No consistency, no fear, and I'm now here to tell you that there ARE some dresses to be afraid of. Yes, be afraid, be very afraid.
After too many dresses, and not enough food in our stomachs, Anita, my final helper, fasten THE dress up. I walked out onto that little pedestal they have [you know, that one that makes you feel like you're the cake topper to a barbie doll cake], and I just looked at myself. It was like falling in love slowly. The more I looked, turned and felt the dress, the more I fell in love with it. I'd get close to the mirror, then move away, then get closer again, then twirl, get off the pedestal, and then back on. After repeating that pattern a few times, I had Anita play with the bottom of the dress a good 8 times before I stopped, stood still, and just smiled. That was it. I was in love. A perfect fit. A dress that was not only "very me," but by the end of the day, very mine.
Sorry, no pictures will be posted on this blog today. I want to keep Derek in the dark on this one. I even avoided the actual "dress terms" in this blog to make sure he doesn't have any clues, sorry if I confused anyone.
Special thanks to my wonderful Mother and Elisa for their patience, humor and adventurous attitudes. It was a fun day, and one I'll never forget.